[{"bf_titre":"Love at First Sight: She Had Me at Alabama Slammers","bf_description":"{{attach file=\u0022AlabamaSlammerDrink.jpg\u0022 desc=\u0022\u0022 size=\u0022big\u0022 class=\u0022center\u0022 caption=\u0022image AlabamaSlammerDrink.jpg (53.0kB)\u0022 nofullimagelink=\u00221\u0022}}\r\nI\u2019d been hanging out with friends most of the night until \u201cshe\u201d walked in. I noticed her from across the bar and around the corner. I was instantly fixated on her in a way that\u2019s only happened four times in more than a decade: two of those being my two ex-girlfriends of three years a piece, and that was eons ago. Even liquid courage wouldn\u2019t help me approach her; I\u2019d had far too much liquid to have any real courage. So a married friend pushed me towards my Godsend, complete with her own set of wings ordering Alabama Slammers.\r\n\r\nThings didn\u2019t click at all with Miss Alabama. It didn\u2019t help that I was beyond gone off Johnny. But somehow, from my recollection, I was uncharacteristically persistent and annoying, even telling off some bar patron who was talking to her that I deemed less than. Still, she gave me her real number. It definitely helped that her being friend with my best friend\u2019s sister.\r\n\u0022\u0022\u003Ccenter\u003E\u0022\u0022== Sponsored Ads ==\r\nLooking For Single Women in the US? 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By then she admitted having turned single that week of the party after a horrible experience and had already dated another guy in the interim. Those few months we spent together were fast and furious, but utter bliss. I fell for her like I\u2019d never fallen for a woman before, especially in that short amount of time. From my first time meeting with her, I dropped all my side acts, focused the bulk of my time on her, and hung on her every word. No 3-Day Rule, no waiting, no games, no lies, no bullshit. I knew it was not an act because I connected with her in a way I had never connected with any other woman. I even remember having that crazy feeling in the car before I left that first weekend, the one of just knowing.\r\n\r\nProblem is if you\u2019re not whole when you fall, then you\u2019re likely to fall the wrong way. She had baggage. I had issues. And things fizzled with miscommunication, mistrust, and a singular bad mistake on my part. I got exceedingly drunk waiting hours upon hours for her to arrive at a party and I ended up swapping info with a cute friend of a friend. Women\u2019s intuition is too keen to discredit and, despite coming as drunkenly clean as possible, \u201cshe\u201d split within 15 minutes, record time. Fate it seems is not without a sense of irony.\r\n\r\nNow that everything has played out, the one I cared about most doesn\u2019t want contact with me. Karma can be a bitch, but it can also be a great teacher. I\u2019m unabashedly single with my head back on straight and my mind focused on staying uninvolved so I can get my life on track. Whenever I happen to fall again hopefully I\u2019ll have put in the work to be much more whole and fall the right way, with her falling right next to me.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-05-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-05-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"LoveAtFirstSightSheHadMeAtAlabamaSlam","date_creation_fiche":"2025-05-16 16:32:17","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-05-16 16:32:17","bf_geolocation":{"latitude":"","longitude":"","geometries":""},"user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-05-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-05-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022LoveAtFirstSightSheHadMeAtAlabamaSlam\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-05-16 16:32:17\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-05-16 16:32:17\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/poletp.info\/actulelab\/?LoveAtFirstSightSheHadMeAtAlabamaSlam","-is-external-":"0"},{"bf_titre":"Sortie Culturelle","bf_description":"La culture, moins on en a, plus on l\u0027\u00e9tale!","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-05-30T18:00:00+02:00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-05-30T20:00:00+02:00","bf_site_internet":"https:\/\/www.yeswiki.net","bf_adresse":"Avenue des Champs Elys\u00e9es","bf_code_postal":"75000","bf_ville":"Paris","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TesT2","imagebf_image":"TesT2_presence-photo.png","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2024-04-02 16:25:51","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2024-04-02 16:48:20","bf_geolocation":{"latitude":"48.8659085","longitude":"2.3197651","geometries":""},"user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"WikiAdmin","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-05-30T18:00:00+02:00\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-05-30T20:00:00+02:00\u0022 data-bf_adresse=\u0022Avenue des Champs Elys\u00e9es\u0022 data-bf_code_postal=\u002275000\u0022 data-bf_ville=\u0022Paris\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TesT2\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-04-02 16:25:51\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-04-02 16:48:20\u0022 data-owner=\u0022WikiAdmin\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/poletp.info\/actulelab\/?TesT2","-is-external-":"0"},{"bf_titre":"Super \u00e9v\u00e9nement \u00e0 Bordeaux","bf_description":"Un \u00e9v\u00e9nement autour du vin, c\u0027est pour cela qu\u0027il est \u00e0 Bordeaux...","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-04-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-04-12","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"Bordeaux","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"Bordeaux","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2021-06-21 19:33:56","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-04-02 16:17:09","bf_geolocation":{"latitude":"44.841225","longitude":"-0.5800364","geometries":""},"user":"91.107.197.60","owner":"WikiAdmin","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-04-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-04-12\u0022 data-bf_ville=\u0022Bordeaux\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022Bordeaux\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222021-06-21 19:33:56\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-04-02 16:17:09\u0022 data-owner=\u0022WikiAdmin\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/poletp.info\/actulelab\/?Bordeaux","-is-external-":"0"}]